生活加油站 ：Story of a pencil

we are like the pencils

One day, the pencil producer tells the pecils

"there are five things that you must know before I send you out into the world,

and you must always remember them in order to be the best pencil"

1. You will be able to do and achieve a lot of great things if and only if you allows yourself to be held in someone's hand.

2. You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, but this is essential if you want to be a better pencil.

3. You have the ability to correct the mistakes that you might make.

4. The most important part of you will always be what's inside.

5. No matter what condition, you must continue to write. You must always leave a clear, legible mark no matter how difficult the situation.

Now, views this into yourself

1. You will be able to do many great things, but if only you allow yourself to be held in God's hand, and allow other human beings to access you for the many gifts you possess.

2. You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, by going through various problems and plights, you will definitely need it to be a stronger person.

3. You might be able to correct mistakes. You might make or grow through them.

4. The most important part of you will always be what's on the inside.

5. On every surface you walk, you must leave your mark. No matter what the situation, you must continue to serve humanity in everything.

Everyone is like the pencil, created by the power of maker

for a unique and special purpose

By understanding and remembering this

let us proceed with our life on this earth having a meaningful purpose

in our heart and have relationship to the mighty power, GOD, daily

Sheffield Game !!! Ga/uys splendid appointment !!!

It has been quite a while since we last met each other.

It has been quite a while since our last football game.

It has been quite a while since we last "kutuk" each other.

Here, out of the blue, all dudes decided to meet up at the sheffield game, treating a football game instead of football match as a valid reason to resume the ever disunite Ga/uY spirits.

As we all expected, our team was named as " JAC FC " for the specific reason. One of the members has his very precious asset (not to mention here), which can lead the team to a glory. Unfortunately, the key player wasn't there for the 1st and 2nd matches, thus, we didnt win... After a post-moterm session among the members, eventually we discovered the main cause which attributes the the disaster by being defeated 6-0 from the home team. The reason was, the miracle asset which can attract the attention from other team players was not there. We expected that with the power of JAC's asset, we can drive away the concentration of other team players from the ball to the "balls-like thingy"...Sad...sad....but Fun!!!

After the matches, we went to sheffield town to have a little gathering...end up, we were in PIZZA hut!!!

Before we saying goodbye...haha...cant imagine, the situation where a group of guys went "jalan-jalan" at the Sheffield night market "pasar malam"...haha

Anyway, I would say it was really nice to meet all of you guys again... Hope to see all of you again in the very near future. See you guys....real soon...!!! Yo....ROCK JAC FC !!!

真人真事 ：跪妻男 ！

所谓：“人非圣贤　，谁能无过”在这世上，有谁没做过错事呢？天下之大，做错事的人可说是数之不尽，多得数不清，但是知错了，愿意认错，改过错误，薾补自己过错的人却少之又少。不用说，如今的社会里，很多人都不懂得说“对不起”，都不能够鼓起勇气认错.

这个片段里的青年人，非常有大男人主义的丈夫，因为想得到爱妻的原谅与宽容，不禁放下大男人的尊严，不怕别人的嘲笑，不理会别人对他的看法，不怕日晒雨淋，向老天爷发誓，为爱妻下跪。若是在家里，在房里下跪还没什么惊讶，可是这男人却选择了在公众场所，在一间购物中心的对面，下跪，那里一天有千千万万的人走过，他不怕别人的讽刺，一心的只求爱妻原谅他，再给他最后的机会。“知错能改，善莫大焉”愿意改过自己的错误，难道就得不到别人的原谅吗？他又没有杀人放火，不至于把他打入十八层地狱吧？一定要把他逼到绝路才行吗？一定要判他死刑？

话说来，这种认错方式还蛮戏剧化的。就像戏剧里的内容一样。但是，各位读者，你觉得用这种方式来请求原谅，真的有用吗？你觉得用这种，借用大众的同情心来逼迫自己的妻子原谅他，对吗？或许是得到了原谅，那是最真诚的原谅吗？还是应为压力，害羞，必不得已，模糊的情况下而作出的决定？

各位，请想一想，为什么这位年轻人需要落得如此的地步，难道就没有其他的认错方式吗？当然，我觉得，由于之前已近用尽了办法，所以不出绝招不行。由此可见，很明显的，它虽然凡的不是杀人放火之罪，但他所犯的错，足以伤透了他爱妻的心，五年里不只没知错，更不用说认错，而且还变本加厉，到外头“９３９４”找外遇。去外边“偷吃”。他由于得不到爱妻的原谅，原因只有一个，就是，他的妻子已经对他绝望，他的妻子受够了。一段美满的婚姻，竟然搞得如此的结局，真叫人痛心。由爱到很！

心理医生全集（王一良　编著）里有说到，“男人是多情的动物　；而女人则是痴情的动物”。个人觉得，这句话倒是真的有如此时。无法否认，男人是容易动情的，一个甜蜜的笑容，一段关怀的句子，一个迷人的眼神，一个难忘的约会足以让一个男人，对异性产生好感。虽然，女生就不会那么的轻易喜欢上一个人，但是，一但女生爱上了他的白马王子，她就会爱的很深，甚至会用自尽来了结一段失败的感情。有了妻子，还在外头“滚”的男生就应该被判下罪行，那法官就当然是但是当时者啦。可是，单身的男人，就因为像选出自己心底最心仪的对象，而同时有几个好感的异性朋友，那是一个罪吗？每个人都有选择的自由及权利，当然，不管是男生还是女生都可以选对象，但是，一但有了男女朋友，开始交往了，那就有责任在身了。有了责任，就不可以再“乱来”，这时，有了男女朋友还去追求，其他的异性，那这就叫做“花心”。所以要选就因选最好的，而不是只为了一时的贪玩而，后悔莫及。尤其是在这思想开放的世纪里，性行为可说是普遍，但千万别忘记，要为自己所做的一切负责任，不单是男的许负责任，女的也当然有责任。如果还没准备好，还不能够负起那责任，就绝对不可以“乱来”，别倒是才说“早知今日，何必当初”。

Ｐ／ｓ：各位读者，让我们一起，“把爱穿出去”好好的爱你身边的每一个人，你的家人，另一半，师长，朋友，及所有的众生。别等到“错过了，才懂得珍惜”，倒是可能太晚了，“别等到做错了才认错，最好就是避免犯错！”ＰＲＥＶＥＮＴＩＯＮ　ＩＳ　ＢＥＴＴＥＲ　ＴＨＡＮ　ＣＵＲＥ　提防是最好的解药！